mencoder, how to create vcd files

hello,
i wanna convert dv-files from a digital-videocamera to small files for
the computer.
i grab the files with dvgrab and convert it with mencoder.
with this call all seems o.k.:
mencoder DV.AVI -o example.mpg -vf scale=352:240 -oac copy -ovc lavc
-lavcopts vcodec=mpeg1video

as a result i got very small video files, good playable on linux with
every player and under win with the vlc-player. but the problem is that
these files under windows are not playable with other players or with
video cut programs.
but all this is possible with vcd files. now i am on the search for the
right mencoder parameters to create genuine vcd or svcd files.
by the way: the source format is 720x576, and the camera records 16:9
any ideas how to handles this? in the moment i make a rescale to 720x405
it looks good but i'am not sure if these is correct.
greetings Randolf Balasus